Heartbroken

I have an autistic son.who.ihavent seen for over 2 months  he cuts me off when he cant have what he ,wants or i dont do.as he asks he has just moved to a new supported living and requested me not to call see him or to know where hes gone .i.have found out where he is .hes broke my heart so many times way he treats me im.struggling to cope i get days when i dont want to be here any more.

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  • I echo what Lee_1973 has said. My mother and I have always had a clash of personalities. It's not her fault, or mine. It's just the way it is. She can sometimes be a little too intense for me, which can result in me shutting down and needing space from her. Sometimes this might be for days, weeks, or months at a time. Like you with your son, it upsets her and causes her to feel rejected by me.

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  • I echo what Lee_1973 has said. My mother and I have always had a clash of personalities. It's not her fault, or mine. It's just the way it is. She can sometimes be a little too intense for me, which can result in me shutting down and needing space from her. Sometimes this might be for days, weeks, or months at a time. Like you with your son, it upsets her and causes her to feel rejected by me.

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