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NAS77989

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I'm not sure if its a problem with my thinking. But it's difficult for me to make friends and acquaintances. It's not that I don't want to. When I'm approaching someone I feel they may not respond and I will be embarrassed. When they do not respond openly I feel hurt and that stops me from continuing further. I'm not sure if people sense I'm needy or whatever that is. The situation is abysmal when approaching women. Is it an issue with self esteem ?

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  • I struggled all the same until

    NAS77989 said:
    acquaintances

    I realised I have no use or need for them, It turned out it's the intensity of an attempt  that repeled them before

    NAS77989 said:
    friends

    For it to be worth making effort It must be someone compatible with your personality, and both of you must have something that other needs. I'm INTJ, so I go well without clashes with INFJs only, I met one who is poemwriter, he teaches me how to, and he gets someone to talk about it at last

    NAS77989 said:
    women

    they're to insane to be understood LOL

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  • I struggled all the same until

    NAS77989 said:
    acquaintances

    I realised I have no use or need for them, It turned out it's the intensity of an attempt  that repeled them before

    NAS77989 said:
    friends

    For it to be worth making effort It must be someone compatible with your personality, and both of you must have something that other needs. I'm INTJ, so I go well without clashes with INFJs only, I met one who is poemwriter, he teaches me how to, and he gets someone to talk about it at last

    NAS77989 said:
    women

    they're to insane to be understood LOL

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  • in reply to Mariusz

    My heart goes out to you, i know exactly how you feel, i've been like that all my life. And when you do meet someone you do everything possible to hang on to them, but that may make you seem needy I tried for a long time internet dating, with mixed results. I thought that, if i could 'talk' to someone online, emails first, perhaps Skype it would easier and i'd be more relaxed if we were to meet in 'real' life, 'cos you know a bit about them by then.