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Death

Ellie b

I can't accept the circle of life I see people who r our loved ones when took away from us am being punished i been grieving for my nan 14 years now she was my best friend she was what kept me strong when I was constantly bullied she unexpectedly died from a stroke never can accept it to painful now my other nan has covid pneumonia trying to tell my head to focus on the positive but extremely extremely ill this is causing massive meltdowns.

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  • Death can be very hard to come to terms with. It seems so final.

    When young, it is hard to accept the finality of death.  I lost schoolfriend's to disease and accident and lost relations when young.  As I grew older and now in retirement it is still difficult - after all, none of us will say 'Oh good, I am going to die in a few years'.  But hearing of the death of others even close friends is no longer the same as it once was.  It still can be a shock, but I accept life goes on.

    There are people very good in death counselling.  Even if you are not religious, a vicar can be very good to talk to about it, and of course religion is important to some people.  And there are services available from people who have gone through the same thing.

    Your Nan was important to you, she had a special place in your heart, and she will always be there in your memories as part of you.  You don't want to forget her nor should you.  Remember good times you had together with affection.  Grief is natural, as is showing emotion when thinking of her.  Above all, try to do things that would have made her proud of you.

    A part of her is always inside you.

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  • Death can be very hard to come to terms with. It seems so final.

    When young, it is hard to accept the finality of death.  I lost schoolfriend's to disease and accident and lost relations when young.  As I grew older and now in retirement it is still difficult - after all, none of us will say 'Oh good, I am going to die in a few years'.  But hearing of the death of others even close friends is no longer the same as it once was.  It still can be a shock, but I accept life goes on.

    There are people very good in death counselling.  Even if you are not religious, a vicar can be very good to talk to about it, and of course religion is important to some people.  And there are services available from people who have gone through the same thing.

    Your Nan was important to you, she had a special place in your heart, and she will always be there in your memories as part of you.  You don't want to forget her nor should you.  Remember good times you had together with affection.  Grief is natural, as is showing emotion when thinking of her.  Above all, try to do things that would have made her proud of you.

    A part of her is always inside you.

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