Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi Everyone,
I'm a 47 year old woman who was diagnosed with Aspergers around 9 years ago after years of bullying in the workplace, anxiety and depression. After diagnosis I was basically left high and dry with no understanding or support apart from a very good friend.
I've been anxious and depressed off and on ever since until things came to a head in February when my life fell apart. But at last I've got a fantastic GP and psychiatrist who're getting me the help and support I need. I'm very keen to learn how to cope better with it and would welcome advice and like to make friends with like-minded people.
Hi Grace,
That's such a coincidence! I wasn't bullied at school either. I was so quiet I blended into the background lol. I had a Saturday job and worked with a boy who asked me which school I went to - I'd been in his English class for 18 months .
I've had to leave 5 jobs now due to bullying related depression and anxiety. This last episode has left me homeless too and dependant on friends so I feel I've reached rock bottom and the only way is up. I've gained alot of experience over the years and I believe i can use it to work for myself. There's a scheme being run in my county to help which I'm going to be joining soon.
I have always felt like an outsider but everyone just thought I was shy and a loner and had very low self esteem. In fact, people don't believe me when I try to tell them I have Aspergers because I've learned how to put on a facade and I come across as 'normal'. My psychiatrist says female aspies are good at that. I don't know if you can relate to that?
I'd be really interested to hear how you get on next week - can you let me know?