Just diagnosed at 57

Hi. I'm so confused about everything at the moment. I was diagnosed yesterday with high functioning autism. All of my children are adults and have been diagnosed later in life, late teens early 20's all high functioning autism.

Now I've helped them all where I can through diagnosis and afterwards. But I sat and thought when the assessment was done, who helps me? Where do I turn? How do I process this?

I knew how to help with my children, still do. I studied everything I possibly could. 

Obviously high functioning autism has to come from somewhere. But although over the past year I've thought I could be? I was relieved them guilty them upset one straight after the other. I had time on holiday last year talking to my brother about childhood and started to look at my own life.

I feel like I need to take time away on my own just to try to process it all.

How do I process it all? I'm waiting for the ADHD assessment in November.

Thank you so much if you've read all this. I needed to write it down xx

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  • Hi and welcome to the community. I'm a woman in my sixties and I had no idea I could be on the spectrum until I was in my mid fifties.

    I'm not officially diagnosed, but I still found it took some time for me to come to terms with the idea that I could be autistic, having thought I was "normal" for decades. 

    Be kind to yourself, take time to process things, and chat to us on here when you need to.

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  • Hi and welcome to the community. I'm a woman in my sixties and I had no idea I could be on the spectrum until I was in my mid fifties.

    I'm not officially diagnosed, but I still found it took some time for me to come to terms with the idea that I could be autistic, having thought I was "normal" for decades. 

    Be kind to yourself, take time to process things, and chat to us on here when you need to.

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