Starting the journey

Hi all.  I have a beautiful little boy aged 2 yrs 4 months who is showing strong red flags for autism.  We already started with the SLT and have a pediatrician appt next week.  Health Visitor is next to useless.

Trying so hard to be positive for him but failing miserably.  Really keen to speak to some other parents who can help me understand what to expect, set my expectations and do right by my son.

Thanks.

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  • My advice is be strong for your son - you, of all people know him best. They don't like to diagnose too young as things do change a lot as kids grow- all kids. But my son is the eldest of 4 and I was never strong enough to keep opening the doors that were slammed in my face. Consequently, 2 days ago, my son was finally diagnosed with ASD at the age of 15!!! The overwhelming sense of relief that perhaps his young adult life could be potentially easier than his younger years is overwhelming. Monitor him closely- keep a diary and know where he's at developmentally. But above all else, love him for being amazing x x x 

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  • My advice is be strong for your son - you, of all people know him best. They don't like to diagnose too young as things do change a lot as kids grow- all kids. But my son is the eldest of 4 and I was never strong enough to keep opening the doors that were slammed in my face. Consequently, 2 days ago, my son was finally diagnosed with ASD at the age of 15!!! The overwhelming sense of relief that perhaps his young adult life could be potentially easier than his younger years is overwhelming. Monitor him closely- keep a diary and know where he's at developmentally. But above all else, love him for being amazing x x x 

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