Hi folks

Hello.

I am 57 years old and was diagnosed as autistic 2 weeks ago.

I have Complex PTSD as a result of childhood abuse, marital abuse and 2 assaults at work when I was a nurse.

I also have alexithymia to make life even more difficult.

I am a bit lost and feel empty at the moment. I don't know what to do next and was looking for some advice.

Can anybody help?

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  • Hello Samcro, 

    I was diagnosed as autistic a handful of months ago. I am in my 70s and my diagnosis has explained so much of my life and difficulties

    I have taken things really, really, slowly; for me a diagnosis is not simply a bit of paper but a doorway to a new world. It has taken me several months to adjust and take on board just some of my new reality. I believe taking time is very important as there is a lot of emotional content which may require time to process. If you have waited many decades then a few months extra is a breeze. I can only say that my diagnosis has been the most important thing that has ever happened to me.  I am much happier, contented and worry far less. I hope the same will be true for you.   

    There is a wealth of information about autism on this site and it is worth checking some out. Again, not all at once but as required. 

    Best wishes. 

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  • Hello Samcro, 

    I was diagnosed as autistic a handful of months ago. I am in my 70s and my diagnosis has explained so much of my life and difficulties

    I have taken things really, really, slowly; for me a diagnosis is not simply a bit of paper but a doorway to a new world. It has taken me several months to adjust and take on board just some of my new reality. I believe taking time is very important as there is a lot of emotional content which may require time to process. If you have waited many decades then a few months extra is a breeze. I can only say that my diagnosis has been the most important thing that has ever happened to me.  I am much happier, contented and worry far less. I hope the same will be true for you.   

    There is a wealth of information about autism on this site and it is worth checking some out. Again, not all at once but as required. 

    Best wishes. 

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