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Diagnosed at 27 and struggling

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Hello! I’m Jodie and I was diagnosed with Autism at 27. I have struggled with social skills and fitting in all my life and this helped me understand that. I am now 28 nearly 29 and seem to be struggling more than ever! I struggle massively with working, I work full time and it drains me so much, I cry on the way to work every morning because I am so anxious, the small talk, the masking, the environment, the recovery time - it’s all too much! I struggle with life in general, communicating, emotions, everything seems so hard every day and I don’t know where to turn! I am planning on applying for PIP and finding a part time job but due to living alone I have bills to pay. 

Is there anyone who is open for a chat or any advice? Or is this autistic life and I need to find out what works. 

Thanks 

Jodie Blush 

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  • Hi Jodie just want to say it’s super brave of you to talk openly about your struggles post diagnosis !! I was diagnosed two years ago and I still struggle so even though it’s hard you’re not alone. 

    I’m the same where social skills are a big challenge. Even though I like my job the social aspect like small talking and colleague relations is so confusing for my brain and makes work more draining. I’m sorry that work is such a big problem at the moment.

    I think the first step of improving your life is identifying your struggles which you seem to have done so that’s a great step. I also think you should explore pip and part time work those seem like good practical next steps. I’m also in the process of applying for pip so if you need any advice feel free to ask me anything. 

    Hope today isn’t being too tough on you :) 

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  • Hi Jodie just want to say it’s super brave of you to talk openly about your struggles post diagnosis !! I was diagnosed two years ago and I still struggle so even though it’s hard you’re not alone. 

    I’m the same where social skills are a big challenge. Even though I like my job the social aspect like small talking and colleague relations is so confusing for my brain and makes work more draining. I’m sorry that work is such a big problem at the moment.

    I think the first step of improving your life is identifying your struggles which you seem to have done so that’s a great step. I also think you should explore pip and part time work those seem like good practical next steps. I’m also in the process of applying for pip so if you need any advice feel free to ask me anything. 

    Hope today isn’t being too tough on you :) 

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