Hello.

I'm 51 and was diagnosed with level 2 ASD in February (although I've suspected I had Aspergers for years). I don't normally use social media channels, but as the only post-diagnosis support the NHS offered me was a link to this website... here I am. Has anyone else found that rather than their diagnosis providing clarity and understanding of why they're like they are (as my GP suggested), they instead feel much worse than before? Mainly I feel anger - that none of the mental health professionals who saw me in my teens did their job properly. If I'd been correctly diagnosed then (rather than with clinical depression and anxiety), how different might my life have been? Anyway, hello everyone (sorry, should have said that first), hopefully at least I'll encounter some people who understand what it's like here.

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  • Hello Stuart, Rachel and Puggy, thank you for replying.

    Yes, of course I realise I'm probably being unfair in saying that the people who saw me 30 odd years ago "weren't doing their job" but I can't help feeling the way I do at the moment. Similarly to you Puggy, I suspect that the only reason I've been diagnosed now is because of one individual: my new GP has an autistic son. She referred me for an RTC assessment. Normally I do try to look forward, attempt to make today better than yesterday etc. It was the assessment - the forms and the interview that forced me to think about all the stuff from my childhood that I normally try not to think about as it upsets me. I've been stuck in that backward looking frame of mind for a few months now. I've got to try to start looking forward again.

  • Personally I have found it useful to acknowledge how I’m feeling/ where I am at, then look at where I want to be, followed by breaking down manageable steps to get there

    Finally I reflect back on a greater distance of time and celebrate what I’ve been through and achieved… looking to the future, but being in the present is great

    i really enjoy my hobbies like nature walks, reading and baking

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  • Personally I have found it useful to acknowledge how I’m feeling/ where I am at, then look at where I want to be, followed by breaking down manageable steps to get there

    Finally I reflect back on a greater distance of time and celebrate what I’ve been through and achieved… looking to the future, but being in the present is great

    i really enjoy my hobbies like nature walks, reading and baking

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