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Newly Diagnosed.

Amy23

Hello, this is my first time posting.

I had my assessment on Wednesday and have been diagnosed with Autism, Level 1. 

I feel relieved and at the same time overwhelmed to get the diagnosis at 54.

My brother, who's son(my nephew) is autistic is being supportive as is a friend with autism. 

My closest friend was very dismissive when I told her, saying "then you're slightly autistic" & "that alot of people are."

Just wanting to connect with people who understand.

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  • Hello.

    It is a strange mix of feelings, thoughts and emotions. It makes you wonder how you managed so long and why you didn't guess earlier.

    Be aware of the imposter feelings and the disappointment when others don't really understand, and wondering if they made a mistake. It's all normal.

    Now you know you'll likely allow yourself to notice all the little things you were hiding and see what things use up effort.

    Just be kind to yourself and don't expect too much. It takes time to assimilate and process it. 

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  • Hello.

    It is a strange mix of feelings, thoughts and emotions. It makes you wonder how you managed so long and why you didn't guess earlier.

    Be aware of the imposter feelings and the disappointment when others don't really understand, and wondering if they made a mistake. It's all normal.

    Now you know you'll likely allow yourself to notice all the little things you were hiding and see what things use up effort.

    Just be kind to yourself and don't expect too much. It takes time to assimilate and process it. 

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