New here. How do I avoid feeling cross with people who work for me?

Hello

I was recently diagnosed with mild ADHD, which I mask well, however it’s impacting my business. I am very thorough and a bit OCD, so when my staff take shortcuts, aren’t organised etc, I take it as a personal insult and feel offended that they would do things that could result in poor outcomes for my clients.

 I definitely am too intense about this and need a strategy to learn not to react in the moment when I have heightened feelings on the situation.

Any input welcome