Wanting advice about autism

Hi? I'm new on hete. I am wanting helo and guidance about ky autistic husband.  He gets upset and angry when he doesn't understand what im saying and when the autistic professional said he needs certain autistic headphones, I went onto argos and looked for noise cancelling headphones and ge just shut it down straight away.  Was i wrong to do that? . He also gets mad when he says i dont understsndbhow he is, but ive said to him that does he understand why im upset. Was i wrong to say that, as im struggling with him and ive cried in front of him and be vets mad when I grt upset about my feelings and get mad.  

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  • Many autistic people need time to process emotions and don’t like sudden change.

    Perhaps he doesn’t appreciate people telling him what he needs before he has had time to process what he needs and wants? 

    You could ask him what he would like and what he doesn’t find helpful. Give him plenty of time to consider these things.

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  • Many autistic people need time to process emotions and don’t like sudden change.

    Perhaps he doesn’t appreciate people telling him what he needs before he has had time to process what he needs and wants? 

    You could ask him what he would like and what he doesn’t find helpful. Give him plenty of time to consider these things.

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