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The fear of the unknown

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My son is 19months, shows all the signs and characteristics of autism, health professionals agree but cant give diagnosis until sees paediatrician. I already know he has it im just waiting for the diagnosis and my heart is broken. I cant help but blame myself and worry about his future! The not knowing what level or impact it will have on his future and my other child. Is this normal? I find myself crying so frequently right now, am I being silly/selfish? Its all very new to me and my husband, no one in either of our families are neurodivergent or autistic. Please be kind with your comments....

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  • It’s understandable that you are concerned about your son as any parent would be, but as others have mentioned, he is very young and can’t know now what his potential will be in the future.

    I have an autistic relative who showed signs of autism from around 16 months. She was non verbal, didn’t make eye contact etc., primary school was the making of her and she has loved it. She has excelled academically and has friends who share her interests. She is due to go to secondary school this year and her parents and teachers expect that she will do well there. 

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  • It’s understandable that you are concerned about your son as any parent would be, but as others have mentioned, he is very young and can’t know now what his potential will be in the future.

    I have an autistic relative who showed signs of autism from around 16 months. She was non verbal, didn’t make eye contact etc., primary school was the making of her and she has loved it. She has excelled academically and has friends who share her interests. She is due to go to secondary school this year and her parents and teachers expect that she will do well there. 

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