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New diagnosis

AndyB

Hi all, I'm Andy, 46 and after having an assessment several weeks ago, I finally have my diagnosis. Still processing at the moment, I suspected for a long time, but good to have things validated. I'm not entirely sure what to do next really, but I do already know quite a lot about ASD already as I've worked with disabilities for 25 years and am currently working in a supported living house with four very different autistic individuals. I'm not too sure what to do next on terms of who to tell and when etc, why thoughts? Thanks

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  • Hello and welcome to the community.

    I received my diagnosis following retirement so I can’t speak from experience regarding your situation. I realise now that I shouldn’t have told some people about my diagnosis as they responded with “we are all a bit autistic” and “I understand, you have it just mildly”. I would just say take time to consider what is in your best interests. Some people might be interested in how your autism affects you and be accepting, others might be dismissive. If you are seeking accommodations, perhaps ask for things that work for you such as, “I need a quiet space to do X, otherwise I can’t concentrate” or “Can you put this in writing please? I find it easier to process written instructions”. Hopefully your place of employment will be understanding and will be interested enough to listen to your experience of being an autistic person.

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  • Hello and welcome to the community.

    I received my diagnosis following retirement so I can’t speak from experience regarding your situation. I realise now that I shouldn’t have told some people about my diagnosis as they responded with “we are all a bit autistic” and “I understand, you have it just mildly”. I would just say take time to consider what is in your best interests. Some people might be interested in how your autism affects you and be accepting, others might be dismissive. If you are seeking accommodations, perhaps ask for things that work for you such as, “I need a quiet space to do X, otherwise I can’t concentrate” or “Can you put this in writing please? I find it easier to process written instructions”. Hopefully your place of employment will be understanding and will be interested enough to listen to your experience of being an autistic person.

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