Introduction. And fear of social media

Hello everyone. Having suspected it for a while, I’ve recently had an autism diagnosis in my 50s. It’s brought a great sense of relief, after years of dealing with anxiety, etc that I just put down to being ‘bad at life’ or bad at dealing with people. I always felt I was just ‘getting it wrong’ and could never find out why.

Do others have difficulty dealing with social media? I’ve given up using things like Facebook, even though it gives me access to support groups (I’m also widowed). It’s such a stressful environment. Even group chats with close family or friends feel like being in a noisy bar with everyone shouting at once. I hardly ever post replies myself - in a large part, for fear of saying something inappropriate and being humiliated for it. Or I just spend days worrying if I’ve said the wrong thing.

Even posting here is making me nervous. (I’ve reread this message about five times now before posting!) Does this sound familiar to anyone?

Parents
  • Hi again and welcome!!

    I have only recently started to use Facebook and that is only because I've joined a couple of ND groups.

    This place is the nearest thing to social media for me and I too was very nervous when I first joined. 

    I've found people on here very supportive and kind. There was nothing to be scared of, as usual the picture I had in my mind was so far away from reality.

    I hope you settle in here soon and enjoy chatting with us.

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  • Hi again and welcome!!

    I have only recently started to use Facebook and that is only because I've joined a couple of ND groups.

    This place is the nearest thing to social media for me and I too was very nervous when I first joined. 

    I've found people on here very supportive and kind. There was nothing to be scared of, as usual the picture I had in my mind was so far away from reality.

    I hope you settle in here soon and enjoy chatting with us.

    (⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠)

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