Introduction. And fear of social media

Hello everyone. Having suspected it for a while, I’ve recently had an autism diagnosis in my 50s. It’s brought a great sense of relief, after years of dealing with anxiety, etc that I just put down to being ‘bad at life’ or bad at dealing with people. I always felt I was just ‘getting it wrong’ and could never find out why.

Do others have difficulty dealing with social media? I’ve given up using things like Facebook, even though it gives me access to support groups (I’m also widowed). It’s such a stressful environment. Even group chats with close family or friends feel like being in a noisy bar with everyone shouting at once. I hardly ever post replies myself - in a large part, for fear of saying something inappropriate and being humiliated for it. Or I just spend days worrying if I’ve said the wrong thing.

Even posting here is making me nervous. (I’ve reread this message about five times now before posting!) Does this sound familiar to anyone?

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  • Good morning from America, Stringcat!

    Oh yes, this sounds familiar to me. One very trying time for me was when I got wrapped up in a group phone chat with the “drama” side of the family lol. I’ve dropped Facebook except for Messenger with a couple friends that are all over the States.

    I do use Discord, though. I find that environment more acceptable, especially since only my closest friends use that with me. I still reread all my posts over and over and delete them every once in a while, but it’s far less pressure than I felt when I used Facebook and MySpace.

    Even if posting here is nerve-wracking, I hope you show up every once in a while! Check out the 3 good things post, it’s all only good vibes there.

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  • Good morning from America, Stringcat!

    Oh yes, this sounds familiar to me. One very trying time for me was when I got wrapped up in a group phone chat with the “drama” side of the family lol. I’ve dropped Facebook except for Messenger with a couple friends that are all over the States.

    I do use Discord, though. I find that environment more acceptable, especially since only my closest friends use that with me. I still reread all my posts over and over and delete them every once in a while, but it’s far less pressure than I felt when I used Facebook and MySpace.

    Even if posting here is nerve-wracking, I hope you show up every once in a while! Check out the 3 good things post, it’s all only good vibes there.

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