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Asperger's confuses me.

Alouisegood

I was diagnosed a few years ago and still find myself in a difficult position. My psychologists refused to label me as a child in the autism spectrum. Which could have made life a bit easier because help was available in school and college. I find myself questioning problems I have with communication and generalisation of behaviour that is different to mine. I haven't received any help because it's difficult to find it in my area. I just don't know what I need to establish a better understanding of my condition. I genuinely need some help or advice. Please. 

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  • The same thing happened to me - when i was reffered with suicidal tendencies a few years ago they assumed because I was undiagnosed (and still am) that my family was using it as an excuse for my behaviours. My family now all realise that my behaviours are heavily related to Aspergers syndrome. 

    I don't blame the people in the mental health unit though. There were other problems that needed addressing, and they helped me through a tough time.

    I recommend you read the book Pretending To Be Normal, (I forget the name of the author), it explains alot. It was written by a woman who grew up with the condition, and includes coping strategies for exam students. It explores a lot of difficult subjects, such as the guilt of late diagnosis and can also be helpful for parents to read as well.

    My mum found it a huge eye opener when it came to unofficially diagnosing me (sort of just saying "oh, so thats what it is").

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  • The same thing happened to me - when i was reffered with suicidal tendencies a few years ago they assumed because I was undiagnosed (and still am) that my family was using it as an excuse for my behaviours. My family now all realise that my behaviours are heavily related to Aspergers syndrome. 

    I don't blame the people in the mental health unit though. There were other problems that needed addressing, and they helped me through a tough time.

    I recommend you read the book Pretending To Be Normal, (I forget the name of the author), it explains alot. It was written by a woman who grew up with the condition, and includes coping strategies for exam students. It explores a lot of difficult subjects, such as the guilt of late diagnosis and can also be helpful for parents to read as well.

    My mum found it a huge eye opener when it came to unofficially diagnosing me (sort of just saying "oh, so thats what it is").

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