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Asperger's confuses me.

Alouisegood

I was diagnosed a few years ago and still find myself in a difficult position. My psychologists refused to label me as a child in the autism spectrum. Which could have made life a bit easier because help was available in school and college. I find myself questioning problems I have with communication and generalisation of behaviour that is different to mine. I haven't received any help because it's difficult to find it in my area. I just don't know what I need to establish a better understanding of my condition. I genuinely need some help or advice. Please. 

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    Welcome to the forum, I hope you find us all warm, friendly and helpful. There is a lot to learn about our condition. The forum allows us to share and help each other with practical advice and encouragement.

    There are some very good books that give some really practical things that you can do to help you understand and deal with the condition. I've read "Living well on the spectrum" by Valerie Gaus and (don't laugh!) "Success as an introvert for Dummies". Both are packed with accessible and practical advice. There are other books listed elsewhere on this site that will be worth a look too. (Try your local library or browse in your local bookshop)

    I was diagnosed a couple of months ago. I have found the diagnosis really useful but it hasn't resulted in any help or cures from the health service or anything like that. This is a thing that can be tackled by accepting and understanding the diagnosis. The diagnosis shows that you are likely have particular strengths in addition to the problems. You are likely to be honest, diligent, careful, straightforward, plain speaking etc. These are all valuable traits that you can do something with.

    There are local groups in some areas. Look for details on the home page of this website - I haven't used these but you might find some help and understanding from members in your area.

    Otherwise, keep posting your puzzles and problems here in the community forum. Between us we have probably come across most of the problems you are likely to encounter. You can also go back through members posts to understand a lot about the issues that we have come up against and how we've dealt with them.

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    Welcome to the forum, I hope you find us all warm, friendly and helpful. There is a lot to learn about our condition. The forum allows us to share and help each other with practical advice and encouragement.

    There are some very good books that give some really practical things that you can do to help you understand and deal with the condition. I've read "Living well on the spectrum" by Valerie Gaus and (don't laugh!) "Success as an introvert for Dummies". Both are packed with accessible and practical advice. There are other books listed elsewhere on this site that will be worth a look too. (Try your local library or browse in your local bookshop)

    I was diagnosed a couple of months ago. I have found the diagnosis really useful but it hasn't resulted in any help or cures from the health service or anything like that. This is a thing that can be tackled by accepting and understanding the diagnosis. The diagnosis shows that you are likely have particular strengths in addition to the problems. You are likely to be honest, diligent, careful, straightforward, plain speaking etc. These are all valuable traits that you can do something with.

    There are local groups in some areas. Look for details on the home page of this website - I haven't used these but you might find some help and understanding from members in your area.

    Otherwise, keep posting your puzzles and problems here in the community forum. Between us we have probably come across most of the problems you are likely to encounter. You can also go back through members posts to understand a lot about the issues that we have come up against and how we've dealt with them.

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