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Just_me

I’m new here and wanted to introduce myself. I have written this post over and over again over the past few days because I just don’t know what words to use, so please forgive me if anything doesn’t make sense. 
I am a 45 years old and for as long as I can remember I have felt that I don’t fit in anywhere and I am different yo other people. I started copying other people, even copying the things they say. From a young age I started to build an imaginary world where there were lots of trees and animals and I felt comfortable being in this world. Even now as an adult I still put myself in that world.

My daughter is waiting for an assessment which got me researching autism and ways I can help her. While researching, my entire life seemed to fall into place. Catching my arms on door frames as I walk through the door wasn’t me being clumsy, sounds and noise that were just unbearable, having to wear track suit bottoms under jeans or work trousers because I can can’t stand the feeling of the materials on my skin and so many other things. It was all there.

Anyway I don’t want to keep going on, I only cane here to say hello

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  • Hello and welcome to the forum! I’m sorry that you haven’t been able to feel you fit in, I’m exactly the same. I also find creating your own little world can help, I always do that. I also have sensitivity to noises and sounds which can be very disturbing, I find listening to music or doing something that can help properly distract you can help with calming down and drowning those disturbing sounds out. I also struggle with clothes as well, especially labels in clothes and when I cut them it doesn’t help as the parts I can’t cut out are even sharper. 

    Anyway I hope you find this forum helpful! 

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  • Hello and welcome to the forum! I’m sorry that you haven’t been able to feel you fit in, I’m exactly the same. I also find creating your own little world can help, I always do that. I also have sensitivity to noises and sounds which can be very disturbing, I find listening to music or doing something that can help properly distract you can help with calming down and drowning those disturbing sounds out. I also struggle with clothes as well, especially labels in clothes and when I cut them it doesn’t help as the parts I can’t cut out are even sharper. 

    Anyway I hope you find this forum helpful! 

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