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Hi Im not sure if anyone would have any suitable advice for me but would love some if you do. 

I have been going through court proceedings to see my daughter for 6 years now. During this time mother has a private diagnosis for asd and the professionals during proceedings agree with it. 

The issue thats arisen now is that my daughter says she doesn't want to see me and there is no reason why. Mother says this is a asd thing and when she doesn't want to do something they cant force her which also happens for drs/hospital appointments and also some missed days at school. 

I am having difficulties rebuilding my relationship with my daughter so dont really know what to suggest in respect of asd.

Any advise would be welcome Pray

Thanks

Sean 

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  • I am so sorry to hear you are going through this at the moment. I hope this isn’t the case but has the mum maybe said nasty things about you to the daughter? Are you not able to have alone time with your daughter to talk things through? Im female myself and I can safely say these days majority of girls and women are just so horrible and b****s and divas and just want to use men to have kids and then leave them. This absolutely sickens me and boils my blood hotter than lava. Sorry I’m getting off track there, I don’t know the details of your situation and you don’t have to give any details if you don’t want to and as I’ve said I hope what I’ve said isn’t the case. I’m sorry I can’t give any advice as I haven’t got kids but I wish you the best. 

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  • I am so sorry to hear you are going through this at the moment. I hope this isn’t the case but has the mum maybe said nasty things about you to the daughter? Are you not able to have alone time with your daughter to talk things through? Im female myself and I can safely say these days majority of girls and women are just so horrible and b****s and divas and just want to use men to have kids and then leave them. This absolutely sickens me and boils my blood hotter than lava. Sorry I’m getting off track there, I don’t know the details of your situation and you don’t have to give any details if you don’t want to and as I’ve said I hope what I’ve said isn’t the case. I’m sorry I can’t give any advice as I haven’t got kids but I wish you the best. 

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    I feel this has been the case somewhat but its all indirect. I am being open and honest with my daughter asking is there anything I can do differently? Have a think and let Mammy know but she is just saying there isnt anything and there's no reasons why she doesn't want to see me. Its hugely frustrating for me.