Lack of effort?

If you were seeing someone and you put 3 hours into getting ready, trying to make an effort with your appearance etc and they only got up an hour before meeting you, only using approximately 45 minutes to get ready, not really making any effort…how would that make you feel? 

Parents
  • Someone with a higher level of assuredness would obviously play it back to them by turning up scruffy as hell and seeing how they would like it - but then that *might* cause the end, and rejection, and ARRRGH... the amount of times I've had to bite my tongue because some *** thought they could *** with me and heving to take it because that could halt! the! procedings! [content removed by Moderator due to breaches of rule 7 of the online community rules and guidelines]

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  • Someone with a higher level of assuredness would obviously play it back to them by turning up scruffy as hell and seeing how they would like it - but then that *might* cause the end, and rejection, and ARRRGH... the amount of times I've had to bite my tongue because some *** thought they could *** with me and heving to take it because that could halt! the! procedings! [content removed by Moderator due to breaches of rule 7 of the online community rules and guidelines]

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