Don’t know where to get help

Hi all

i could do with some advice please

i am struggling with my living conditi9ns due to anti social behaviour and feeling unsafe, I have to self harm to cope, a homeless application was submitted to the council about 3 months ago but they said because I physically haven’t been attacked they won’t help (I have a complaint pending) 

In April I went and spoke to an equality centre and while I was there they rang my dr and asked them to make an emergency referral for my mh due to my self harming, the next day the dr sent me a txt message telling me to contact another organisation, due to my autism I find it hard to talk to people, I put a complaint in and they said third party shouldn’t be calling the gp on my behalf and that if I’m in crisis to ring SPA which I have many times but they don’t do anything 

nhs111 made an appointment with a social worker at my cmht who I’ve had issues with and have had to put complaints in to as they make my mh worse, anyway I answered this social workers questions, telling him I’ve recently been diagnosed with autism, he said I should make a referral to the council social workers, I told him I did but they said because I can walk and talk they won’t help me, I said I’m speaking to a social worker now you should be helping me that’s why the referral was done, but he kept saying I need to refer to the council social worker not listening that the referral got declined (a complaint is also in to them) so I ended up storming out if the cmht and put a complaint in, although it hasn’t been acknowledged or replied to, so I rang nhs111 telling them not to refer me to a service that isn’t going to help instead make me worse, but they just said that’s the only place I can be referred to as I’m open to themRage

I spoke to Mencap who told me because I haven’t been diagnosed as having a learning disability they won’t help, but no one will do a learning disability assessment 

I just don’t know where and who can help

sorry about the long post 

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  • I am really sorry to hear what you’re going through. I have found something that may help.

    If you just need to talk, any time of day or night

    Free listening services

    These services offer confidential support from trained volunteers. You can talk about anything that's troubling you, no matter how difficult:

    • Call 116 123 to talk to Samaritans, or email: jo@samaritans.org for a reply within 24 hours
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    • Call 0800 585 858 to talk to Calm (if you're 15 years old or over) or use CALM webchat, both available from 5pm to midnight every day
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  • I am really sorry to hear what you’re going through. I have found something that may help.

    If you just need to talk, any time of day or night

    Free listening services

    These services offer confidential support from trained volunteers. You can talk about anything that's troubling you, no matter how difficult:

    • Call 116 123 to talk to Samaritans, or email: jo@samaritans.org for a reply within 24 hours
    • Text "SHOUT" to 85258 to contact the Shout Crisis Text Line
    • Call 0800 585 858 to talk to Calm (if you're 15 years old or over) or use CALM webchat, both available from 5pm to midnight every day
    • Call 0800 068 4141, text 07860 039967 or email pat@papyrus-uk.orgto contact HOPELINE247, available 24 hours a day

    If you're under 19, you can also call 0800 1111 to talk to Childline. The number will not appear on your phone bill.

    These services will only share your information if they are very worried about you or think you are in immediate danger.

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