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Hi, I'm new to the site and have spent the majority of my morning exploring!

I have a 13 year old son who at home is funny, loving and caring. Over the last couple of years a few people have said to me that they found him a bit odd. I put this down to shyness something that I myself have sufferd with all my life. This changed a few weeks ago when a friend who has recently started to work with children with autism, said to me that she thought my son had aspergers.

I spent some time looking in to the condition and with every symptom I read about I could see  my son. I read that the best place to start when trying to get a diagnosis is the GP. I have a massive problem with this.....my son is completely phobic about doctors and gets quiet hysterical if a doctors appointment is even mentioned never mind made!

I have contacted school and was told by the headmaster that they would look in to what they could do to get an assesment. This was about a month ago and they still havent done anything to the point that my numerous calls are being ignored by the head. 

Last night I had to attend parents evening so decided to collar the head but lo and behold he wasn't in attendance! I decided to talk to each and everyone of my son's teachers who once aspergers was mentioned to them proclaimed that yes they thought I was right! One kind teacher said that she would speak to the senco teacher and get her to call me today. I'm not sure if she will but I'm hoping!

I feel at my wits end not knowing where to go from here. Any advice would be greatly received.

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  • Mine were diagnosed several years ago.  I went to the gp on my own as I did not want to discuss my concerns infront of my child.

    The gp pulled out a questionnaire that we went through together.  The underlying trigger for referrals was if the symptoms were present for more than six months.

    My first camhs appointment was again on my own, followed by referal to psychiatrist who interviewed my child and made his diagnosis.

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  • Mine were diagnosed several years ago.  I went to the gp on my own as I did not want to discuss my concerns infront of my child.

    The gp pulled out a questionnaire that we went through together.  The underlying trigger for referrals was if the symptoms were present for more than six months.

    My first camhs appointment was again on my own, followed by referal to psychiatrist who interviewed my child and made his diagnosis.

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