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Graham W

Thought I'd pop in and say hi,

myself and my partner now care for my 9 year old son, after social services removed him

from the care of my ex wife.

we have been seperated the last 3 years, and up to that point I had a lot of involvment

with his aspergers.

Rhys is statemented and also under a section 20 with camsH.

Rhys also attends a specialist school, part time boarding and home holidays and weekends.

his mother never let me get very involved since the split, despite trying and wanting him to live with us last year.

so looking forward to the future and helping Rhys through his next steps.

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  • Thank you for your reply.

    no, as far I'm aware I'm not on the spectrum and especially with my profession working 999 shifts I do cope with changes and sudden changes to the day, things Rhys cannot do.

    Many people have pointed the finger at his mum, but feel it's unfair for me to comment lol.

    Rhys shows great violence to his younger sister, and recently a child in the street.

    His mum has always allowed, xbox games, guns and what I feel inappropriate games to maybe fuel situations. Here although I don't personally find games an issue, WE here as adults know the difference between a game and real violence. So in his new surroundings we are going to keep things calm and interactive.

    Rhys loves to take things apart, so I've collected CD players and radios he can play with, and bought him a multimeter today so he can 'test' things.

    I have been involved as much as I can with him despite the break up, and always researched and asked questions when I need to.

    social services etc are very poor in communications when it comes to discussing Rhys's needs, I do find that!!

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  • Thank you for your reply.

    no, as far I'm aware I'm not on the spectrum and especially with my profession working 999 shifts I do cope with changes and sudden changes to the day, things Rhys cannot do.

    Many people have pointed the finger at his mum, but feel it's unfair for me to comment lol.

    Rhys shows great violence to his younger sister, and recently a child in the street.

    His mum has always allowed, xbox games, guns and what I feel inappropriate games to maybe fuel situations. Here although I don't personally find games an issue, WE here as adults know the difference between a game and real violence. So in his new surroundings we are going to keep things calm and interactive.

    Rhys loves to take things apart, so I've collected CD players and radios he can play with, and bought him a multimeter today so he can 'test' things.

    I have been involved as much as I can with him despite the break up, and always researched and asked questions when I need to.

    social services etc are very poor in communications when it comes to discussing Rhys's needs, I do find that!!

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