Hello to you from me

Hi, thought I would try to introduce myself. I am recently diagnosed autistic and adhd at 50yrs old. Joined here to speak to fellow ND people and find some community. I am trying to learn to navigate this world and find out how to advocate for myself since being given a massive piece of the puzzle that’s been missing my whole life. I am finding society harder than ever to manage.

I am quite solitary nowadays and enjoy a peaceful existence, finding most comfort in nature and under a tree canopy. 
Life has been a constant struggle and while growing up I found lots of quite unhealthy coping mechanism's to deal with what I now know was undiagnosed autism and ADHD. Thankfully today I don’t turn to them as been in recovery for around 10 years. 

Recently really struggling with being misunderstood and I have found myself in conflict with people while trying to stand up for myself and not be bullied. It’s really hard to advocate for yourself when having a meltdown I now know. I hope someone can relate. Experience welcomed. 

Parents
  • Hi! Good to have you here!

    I’m fairly young so I might not be the best person for giving advice based on life experience, but just know that you’re not alone. Being misunderstood is a quite common struggle within this community, but to realise and accept that it isn’t as easy for oneself to communicate in certain situations is actually a great step. It allows you to maybe not judge yourself too harshly. It takes a certain open mindedness of the people around you for you to be able to educate them about your struggles and if they aren’t ready for that… well, that’s not your fault. 
    I know, this does not make it any easier. Just know you’re doing great by being here. Hope you find lots of support through sharing your struggles!

  • Hi and thanks for your reply. It’s helped just to read this if I am honest as I have felt quite isolated, so thank you. Much appreciated. 

Reply Children
No Data