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Exploring the fact I may be autistic.

Tobywoof

Hello, I'm a 64 Yr old female and, after all the recent stories and information I have read recently on this website, I am convinced that I am autistic. I don't want to go down the referral line because of the time factor and the raking up of old memories. I also feel that any time allocated to me would be better spent on diagnosing a child who will then get the help needed to live a fulfilling life. I would like to look further into self-identifying and to get the courage to raise the subject with my friends and family. I don't know how to start with this. Thank you for reading. Take care all.

  • Hi and welcome. I had exactly the same thoughts as you when I realised I was on the spectrum, I'm the same age and gender as you, and I've been self diagnosed for about 8 years now.

    Have you taken the AQ50 test? It was created by Professor Baron-Cohen, an autism expert, is widely used as a screening tool, and is easy to find online. It gives a fairly good indication. (My score was 42)

    I also read a book called "Am I autistic?" By Lydia Andal, and did lots of online research into autism in adults - particularly women - including engaging with others on this site.

    I hope the forum is of help to you.

  • Dear Tobywoof,

    Thank you for sharing this with our community. 

    Our website has a lot of useful information about diagnosis, including a pre-diagnosis guide for adults who think they might be autistic.  We also have advice about broaching the subject if you have a family member or friend who you think may be autistic.   

    You can also browse our website for lots of other advice and guidance on a wide range of information about autism, including what autism is, socialising and relationships, employment, benefits and social care.  
         
     To find diagnostic services in your local area, you can try searching on our Autism Services Directory, which can be found here.  The Directory also includes listings for support and social groups for autistic people, their families and friends. 

    Thank you, Tobywoof. I hope this helps!

    With all good wishes,

    Eunice Mod