Published on 12, July, 2020
Is it worth getting diagnosed at 68 yrs old? I no longer work - thankfully. Although, after suffering my 3rd marriage failure and many other issues, I am feeling that I need support. I have never asked for support because 1. I didn't know I was autistic, 2. Pride - at feeling inadequate and I should be able to do everything myself, 3. Shame and embarrassment for not feeling able to cope - something I have struggled with all my life. As I get older I am not as resilient and feel like my life is almost over. I am currently trying to get an old age bungalow which is in very short supply in North Lincolnshire. But I would like to know if I am autistic even it is just for my peace of mind.
Good morning.
I think you have answered your own question with your final sentence above, and I think it is a good answer......"peace of mind" is invaluable.
However, if you are thinking that having a diagnosis for autism will result in some form of "support" for you, in a practical sense, then I would caution you against that expectation. One consistent message I have gleamed from this forum over the years is that, in a practical sense, for a person in your position, there is no help nor meaningful support available.
It would not surprise me if a few 'others' disagree with my acquired perception on this matter, but I am quite settled and confident in what I have written to you above.
I hope my words are helpful to you and I wish you well.
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