A little hello from a newbie

Hi All,
 
I'm Em and I am Mum to 2 fabulous boys; L is 12 years old and C is 3 yrs old.

L has recently moved to senior school and they have suggested that he is on the Sprectrum and they need assistance to manage him.

Throughout his school life I have been in and out of school for multiple reasons, we have had CAF's and mental health team assistance but the schools were able to offer lots of assitance and extra help. Sadly Senior's is very different and L is struggling every day to cope and manage his school/home life.

We have just had the Early Year Assesment team refer him to CAMH's but they have said he is on the 'Choice' list and we will be contacted when they can see him as currently they are only seeing those in "immediate and significant risk".

I have no knowledge in this area and am in need of some support as I'm desperate to help my lad any way I can.

We have looked into a private assessment and would find the funds if we thought it beneficial but from what I have read - it seems to be unhelpful to schools.

I'd love to hear any positive experiences with private assessments and any general advice for managing meltdowns and routine changes please.

Many thanks in advance,
Em x

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  • Hello there I would put a thread on mumsnet under special needs you would be amazed how many experienced parents and professionals there are out there who would be willing to respond to your query.  Of course this forum may well provide you with useful insight too.  I am new to this forum as I am autistic so it is not directly about my son that I am registered as such.

    In addition if you call Family Lives you can get their number online it is a freephone number from a landline and they may well give you some pointers.

    I hope these two suggestions help in some small way.  Best of luck!

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  • Hello there I would put a thread on mumsnet under special needs you would be amazed how many experienced parents and professionals there are out there who would be willing to respond to your query.  Of course this forum may well provide you with useful insight too.  I am new to this forum as I am autistic so it is not directly about my son that I am registered as such.

    In addition if you call Family Lives you can get their number online it is a freephone number from a landline and they may well give you some pointers.

    I hope these two suggestions help in some small way.  Best of luck!

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