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I feel like a Freak and cannot not find someone who would want a relationship with me!

JackRHOSullivan

Hi,

My name is Jack [edited by mod] and I have Asperger's Syndrome and Tourette's Syndrome (I have body movements and noises that I cannot control but I do not swear.)

Due to my special needs, I have found it impossbile to find someone my age that would want to be in a realtionship with me. I am hetrosexual but feel that my special needs alienantes me from from 17-18 year old girls. Is this normal in Asperger's or is it just something my mind is doing to me as I feel that I need a relationship to help me feel less lonely?

Jack

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  • It's genuinely intended, even if it appears trite to you.  Some sayings are true because they come from a place of logic and reason.  There is nothing meaningless about that.  Think about what I said in my post above.  Which would be the better option?  Of course the desire for a relationship is real, nature has a habit of instilling into us the urge to communicate and procreate, but that doesn't mean any relationship is better than none.  It doesn't also mean, that being dissatisfied with being single makes advice from someone who isn't, worthless or meaningless.

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  • It's genuinely intended, even if it appears trite to you.  Some sayings are true because they come from a place of logic and reason.  There is nothing meaningless about that.  Think about what I said in my post above.  Which would be the better option?  Of course the desire for a relationship is real, nature has a habit of instilling into us the urge to communicate and procreate, but that doesn't mean any relationship is better than none.  It doesn't also mean, that being dissatisfied with being single makes advice from someone who isn't, worthless or meaningless.

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