Published on 12, July, 2020
Just wanted to say hi. I was recently diagnosed ASD at age 54. I can really identify with what I have been reading on here. I have survived 54 years, just about, without a diagnosis or any assistance. I am feeling relieved to have the diagnosis but at the same time very overwhelmed. It seems to be taking over my life. I want to be able to accept my differences and not be held back by them or obsessed by them. I seem to have been given hundreds of different websites etc to look at, but having discovered this community today I can honestly say it's been the most helpful place. Just to know that there are so many other adults out there feeling the same as me and having the same life experiences. I feel so much better for this. I have come to accept being alone, but it's nice to be able to connect in some way with other people who understand. I am hoping that in time my diagnosis will give me the understanding of my life and the positivity that I hoped for. I'm grateful that so many people have shared their experiences here.
Hello!
I'm a similar age and awaiting to be assessed - probably not until next year or year after. At least I'm on the list now - something that I had to really fight for.
Since the COVID pandemic I have had a lot of physical struggles and trying to get help for those has really exposed my suspected ASD. I've been sectioned 3 times in the last 18 months - hopefully I wont be visiting the "suicide suite" anytime soon.
Apologies, I think I was starting to hijack your thread for a moment.
It's particularly interesting and somewhat "comforting" to read about people of similar age being diagnosed for the first time. I think that many of us have be coping / fighting it (without actually knowing what it was) for decades. So, whilst the waiting list isn't ideal, I guess at least times have moved on and there is now more knowledge of ASD.
Welcome aboard!
GPK26 said:I think that many of us have be coping / fighting it (without actually knowing what it was) for decades.
Absolutely, yes, yes, yes !
Ben