Published on 12, July, 2020
Could I please ask, does anyone obsess over particular material objects? With me it’s tech, vapes, paperwork.
I focus intensely on one thing then it fades & I go to the next.
if things aren’t 100% perfect I tend to only see their flaws. For eg, mobile phone with scratch on, I would use.
I also think of things I haven’t seen in a while then turn the flat over looking for them.
I can feel the thoughts coming about intense focus but a often unable to stop them.
Thanks in advance.
Thank you aidie
welcome to this forum
It’s nice at last after all these years to know I’m not alone in some of my traits. Important to think of the future & not what might have been.
Thanks for disclosing that.
I obsess over stationary (notebooks etc) and water bottles!
Thanks for your insights.
Thank you. V interesting, I’m exactly the same will often buy 2 or 3 of same thing. Secondhand clothes not bothered by flaws.
I hear you. All at the great loss of such things as Kintsugi which to me appears much more perfect than perfection.
I can relate to needing things to be pristine. I have even gone as far as buying two of something, one to use and the other to be kept pristine. It's odd that if I buy something secondhand, like an old book, I am not bothered by any flaws, and even sometimes find them endearing.
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