Hello

good tip from a nice guy

I am married to somebody typical. After I noticed I had lots of autistic traits I asked him some things such as how I should speak and what can I do to blend better. He said if I speak quiet when the noises around me go down (apparently this is why a lot of autistic people seem loud to typicals we cannot hear change in sound as relative to our own voice- it just sounds the same) and being in tune with and around others is subconscious and nobody questions this is when we are not in tune and prefer our own company more than them, they feel put off. It’s like there’s no invisible vibes but I wouldn’t know because I don’t feel that. 

I felt exactly the same way, until I joined here. I hope you feel that same vibe too.

will likely be little things you dont detect. for example my kung fu teacher told me to try change the pitch of my voice as i sound very monotone robotic and bored and made others bored listening to me. but how do i do that? if i tried id probably sound funny like im taking the piss or something lol

Hello Daxa95.

It is lovely to meet you virtually.

Sorry to hear you have been feeling lonely. I understand that feeling. I sometimes feel like that myself. Hope you are feeling better from joining our community. 

Welcome, welcome, welcome.

Thank you 

Pookywombat said:

not connecting or not wanting to connect

I understand - and I do try to mask and blend in within social groups. But people just get a strange vibe from me. Even when my acting is natural 

Warm welcome to the community! So nice to see you here!

Loneliness comes not from not being with people but from not connecting or not wanting to connect

any questions just ask

Yes - that was a good idea. Just getting used to navigating the site

Hi  Daxa95

Welcome to this forum

Please feel free to join in any of the discussions 

what are you diagnoses ?  Maybe put them in your profile so others can connect with you .

Welcome, I know what you mean an am sure you will meet a lot of like minded people here.