Published on 12, July, 2020
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How do I make an appointment with a GP? It would be nice if I could go as just me without my mum.
My cousin (5 years younger than me) has autism and my mum had(/has - she still gets upset easily) depr…
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welcome to this forum
I read your profile and have provided you with the overplan in getting a diagnosis and added my own tips
from profile : cover the green camera LED with small piece of blue tack or even better a small piece of paper from the stick edge of a Post It/sticky note. Have the camera on when doing this to make sure the camera isnt covered. IN my meetings I keep the camera off because i find it make me anxious/not concentrate/play up when in a meeting.
right here is the plan. click on the image to make it bigger. You can read Asperger,s as Autism.
here are my extra notes
Make a list of reasons why u think u are autistic.
include relatives in your family who are autistic or adhd or called weird/different
and a list of occasions when u have been called weird, autistic, different
the list should be electronic ie so you can email it.
Print out a copy and hand to your doctor when u go to ask for an autism assessment
My cousin (5 years younger than me) has autism and my mum had(/has - she still gets upset easily) depression
I wish that I could access the videos on the website for the girl with the curly hair (but paywall) :'(
welcome to this forum :)
I think my current excuse works (I am in a room with other people doing Zoom too) because everyone so far has said that that is fine, but if they do more investigating and discover that I could go somewhere else, do you think they would understand if I told them that Zoom is stressful?
I think they know that my camera works because sometimes I join meetings with it on (not my choice) and I cover it up with my phone because I tried my thumb and it went orange rather than black. I think the environment excuse is definitely a last resort thing, but if I run out of other excuses, then I will try that one...
yes i know of another person in my meetings who attends by audio only --- its fine to say that the camera makes u nervous/anxious. people will understand.
i think u may have to wait until u are 18 then u can ring the GP yourself and attend a meeting/appointment yourself either in person or by zoom/phone
I find talking via Zoom or phone calls in general stressful too (I'm not exactly sure why). What do I do about that?
in my case practice. i had a job where i had to ring people all day and every day (telesale job ) I just got very used to it. its difficult for everyone and thats the thing to remember. Everyone struggles with it. I do. But i will do it otherwise i have to drive into to work and thats 1000s times worse !
just think how amazing zoom actually is. TIP always smile ( actually or in your head ) when in zoom or on the phone it changes ur voice and makes u more pleasant.
keep doing zoom u'll get better at it.
Just before the meeting take 3 deep breaths and exhale slowly to reduce your anxiety
I was reading some stuff about applying to university (I shouldn't be worrying about this because it is not time to yet, but I like to think about my future) and there was stuff that they said that I thought would be helpful to me such as allowing me to record lectures and then write a transcript of them later because I am not good at listening for a long time but then some websites said that I could only access support with a written diagnosis from a doctor :'(
What is the best way to practice? (I won't reply to messages you send me until tomorrow because I am tired and I am going to go to bed)
each university is different
a diagnosis is defo very helpful because you show them your letter and then get on with it
but u have the right ( your current UK law ) to self declare. U simply say "I believe i am autistic" after that you have to be treated as autistic.
a diagnosis also helps identify your weker areas where u can ask for support.
UCL ( university college London ) has a very good autistic student support. I just happened to be helping someone else who applied to do law there.
look/search for universities with good autism student support.
my mum is autistic and doesnt know :) and i have a nephew who has a diagnosis.
your correct to plan ahead ( typical autistic thing ! ).
I think u need to ask ur mum to start going for an autism diagnosis so that u get some support while at uni. Show her my plan. Even having the ability to say "i am autistic and I am waiting on my diagnosis " helps convince people u are for real.
in a professional diagnosis they could also notice other things commonly found with autism like OCD, ADHD, anxiety, and depression, dyslexia, dyspraxia.
talk to you tomorrow Ember