Published on 12, July, 2020
HI All,
My 12 year old daughter after 2.5 years of waiting finally had her diagnosis through of being on the ASD. We are relieved in a way but kind of sad, but also happy if you know what I mean.
I am look forward to gaining as much assistance as I can for my daughter without making too many changes, but also being able to give her the best and happy everyday life that she deserves.
Any help, tips, advice, grants, assistance would be gratefully received.
Many thanks take care, stay safe
Liz
Hello NAS70134,
The NAS website has a page regarding post-diagnosis support which may offer some guidance to you on how to help your daughter: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/diagnosis/post-diagnosis-support/parents-and-carers
All the best,
Karin Mod
Contingency plans! Whatever you want to get her to do, make sure there are loads of safety nets and plans for her so if she feels anxiety about something, she knows exactly what to do.
Things like going to the cinema with friends - if you get separated, all meet here etc - anything else, make sure she knows you'll be there for her if it all gets out of control - so she feels supported to try things knowing only very small things can go wrong - a plan for every occasion. Build a pattern of small successes and expand on it.
Good luck!
i am not much help but that's just nice to hear
Nice one.
Don't know how far on the spectrum she is but what I will say is do not let it become an excuse for her actions but an understanding. Every one still needs boundaries but it's how you apply them that make the difference. I was severely thrashed as a lad because in them days they did not recognise ASD. Am 60+ and just officially diagnosed.
Some one on here will be more proactive with advice and pointing in the right direction.
Wish you et al the best.
BTW the reason I wrote what I did is that I have met a child that did something and his explanation was - 'my mum said I can not help it because I've got ASD.