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Emms

Hello im new to all this and feeling a bit lost with everything, I have an 11 yr old son he is a lovely amazing special young man (most of the time) I have always had problems with him at home behavour, trouble with his older sister (the only sister he has trouble with he actually has 2 brothers and 4 sisters) but after moving house and i guess upsetting his routine trouble at school not being able to settle bad behavour at school ending in him having to be removed so far he has been asked to be removed from 2 schools and is looking to be taken out of the 1 he is in now due to behavour he is not a bad child and all the teachers agree with me im trying very hard to get him assesed no 1 really wants to help i had 1 professional tell me he couldnt have aspergers as he makes eye contact with me and got extremely upset when his temper problems were talked about. Reading the information on here its like reading a book on my son. It is tearing my family apart at the moment because we just dont no where to go what help we can get for him we seem to walk around on egg shells around him. I could go on and on about what his behavour is like but to be honest i dont no where to start all i do know is im at the end of my tether he is getting bigger stronger and its scary when he goes off. Any advice would be wonderful.

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  • Thank you for your replies :) I have recieved a whole load of paperwork today so will be reading through that later and making another appointment tomurrow with the GP (good idea to see another doc i will make sure i do this time)  I spoke to his special needs teacher today from his previous school and she told me she thought he has aspergers but didnt say anything to me :/ I have been saying for years since he was a little boy there is something not quite right but dealing with a disabled daughter as well i guess he got a bit overlooked :( I also have had doctors teachers say that "its bad parenting he is a trouble maker ect" but he really is not he is the sweetest boy very helpful and loving until he looses his temper then its like a different child altogether and the emotional shut down he will sit in his bed for hours with his cover over his head he wont talk to any 1 no eye contact there is nothing at all. We know how to deal with it at home but at school they dont know how to deal with it. When he goes off at school they think its just bad behavour. He just does not know what is going on either. Again thank you for your support :)

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  • Thank you for your replies :) I have recieved a whole load of paperwork today so will be reading through that later and making another appointment tomurrow with the GP (good idea to see another doc i will make sure i do this time)  I spoke to his special needs teacher today from his previous school and she told me she thought he has aspergers but didnt say anything to me :/ I have been saying for years since he was a little boy there is something not quite right but dealing with a disabled daughter as well i guess he got a bit overlooked :( I also have had doctors teachers say that "its bad parenting he is a trouble maker ect" but he really is not he is the sweetest boy very helpful and loving until he looses his temper then its like a different child altogether and the emotional shut down he will sit in his bed for hours with his cover over his head he wont talk to any 1 no eye contact there is nothing at all. We know how to deal with it at home but at school they dont know how to deal with it. When he goes off at school they think its just bad behavour. He just does not know what is going on either. Again thank you for your support :)

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