feeling lost

Hello im new to all this and feeling a bit lost with everything, I have an 11 yr old son he is a lovely amazing special young man (most of the time) I have always had problems with him at home behavour, trouble with his older sister (the only sister he has trouble with he actually has 2 brothers and 4 sisters) but after moving house and i guess upsetting his routine trouble at school not being able to settle bad behavour at school ending in him having to be removed so far he has been asked to be removed from 2 schools and is looking to be taken out of the 1 he is in now due to behavour he is not a bad child and all the teachers agree with me im trying very hard to get him assesed no 1 really wants to help i had 1 professional tell me he couldnt have aspergers as he makes eye contact with me and got extremely upset when his temper problems were talked about. Reading the information on here its like reading a book on my son. It is tearing my family apart at the moment because we just dont no where to go what help we can get for him we seem to walk around on egg shells around him. I could go on and on about what his behavour is like but to be honest i dont no where to start all i do know is im at the end of my tether he is getting bigger stronger and its scary when he goes off. Any advice would be wonderful.

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  • Thank you i have read so much already its all a bit overwhelming at the moment. Having always thought "its just how he is" its always been normal for us to live with him like this but when it all started to go wrong with the school i think thats when i had to admit to myself that things were not right. Im so glad i found this site having felt like we were going through this alone i realise there is help for him at last. 

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  • Thank you i have read so much already its all a bit overwhelming at the moment. Having always thought "its just how he is" its always been normal for us to live with him like this but when it all started to go wrong with the school i think thats when i had to admit to myself that things were not right. Im so glad i found this site having felt like we were going through this alone i realise there is help for him at last. 

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