feeling lost

Hello im new to all this and feeling a bit lost with everything, I have an 11 yr old son he is a lovely amazing special young man (most of the time) I have always had problems with him at home behavour, trouble with his older sister (the only sister he has trouble with he actually has 2 brothers and 4 sisters) but after moving house and i guess upsetting his routine trouble at school not being able to settle bad behavour at school ending in him having to be removed so far he has been asked to be removed from 2 schools and is looking to be taken out of the 1 he is in now due to behavour he is not a bad child and all the teachers agree with me im trying very hard to get him assesed no 1 really wants to help i had 1 professional tell me he couldnt have aspergers as he makes eye contact with me and got extremely upset when his temper problems were talked about. Reading the information on here its like reading a book on my son. It is tearing my family apart at the moment because we just dont no where to go what help we can get for him we seem to walk around on egg shells around him. I could go on and on about what his behavour is like but to be honest i dont no where to start all i do know is im at the end of my tether he is getting bigger stronger and its scary when he goes off. Any advice would be wonderful.

Thank you 

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  • hi - could you let us know more about the problem with getting him assessed?  From your post it's clear that's what you all need.  You'll know from visiting this site that an assessment + then a sen statement can make a big difference.  If the correct support isn't in place for him at school then he'll have difficulties coping.  As you say he keeps being taken out of schools.  He'll be feeling very stressed out + that in turn affects you all.  Please post again - lots of people here to give advice.  bw

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  • hi - could you let us know more about the problem with getting him assessed?  From your post it's clear that's what you all need.  You'll know from visiting this site that an assessment + then a sen statement can make a big difference.  If the correct support isn't in place for him at school then he'll have difficulties coping.  As you say he keeps being taken out of schools.  He'll be feeling very stressed out + that in turn affects you all.  Please post again - lots of people here to give advice.  bw

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