Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm an emotional mom of a 14yr old newly diagnosed autistic son. He is so angry with himself when he has his meltdowns. I make him safe when he's punching and kicking out, I sit at a distance as he doesn't like being touched. But all I can do is cry as I feel so helpless. Tell me I'm not alone or the only one
You are not alone. It hurts watching your child go through this, but it is a thousand times worse for him. Have you worked out the cause of the meltdowns? Removing triggers is very helpful as is reassuring him that it's ok to get overwhelmed.
We are all still working things out, but social situations with too many people are the worst. 2days back we went to a quiet pub which he is normally happy with when a large party came in. We made a swift exit but it was too late to appease him.. 2 days of on and off meltdowns and minimal conversation later he is good again. Thank you so much for responding, we are all trying to see what works and what doesn't at the moment, I have a notebook for jotting down triggers now xx