Hi. New here and looking for support and advice

Before I start, I'm not very good at this Internet stuff so bare with me. 

My DD is 5, almost 6. She's always had her 'quirks' but to cut a long story short, her school wrote to our GP who has referred Caitlin to the paediatric team for assessment (I'm assuming) She had her appointment with nurse specialist who has referred us to a specialist I think. She listed her concerns as being communication difficulties (her speech is slow and monotone)behaviour rigidities, social difficulties and one other that seems to have escaped me at the moment. 

We have also been referred to SALT to see what they think. 

The problem I'm really having at the minute is knowing how to deal with her when she lashes out. She frequently targets her sister who is only 8. I've tried talking, she shouts over me, I've tried naughty step, she won't sit on it and I've tried a chill out room but that doesn't seem to workeither. 

As it is now, I don't know if Caitlin is autistic, or has ASD as suggested by the nurse. People see her as being naughty but I'm sure it's not just naughtiness. 

Any advice is gratefully accepted. Kelly xx

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  • I definitely noticed a change after the move. I think she perhaps may have learnt that she could lose her temper from seeing the other kids at school doing it and then getting a reaction... I really don't know. I wouldn't like to say. 

    Boards etc, I really don't know about anything like that. I'm totally new to all of this x

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  • I definitely noticed a change after the move. I think she perhaps may have learnt that she could lose her temper from seeing the other kids at school doing it and then getting a reaction... I really don't know. I wouldn't like to say. 

    Boards etc, I really don't know about anything like that. I'm totally new to all of this x

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