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ASD

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Hi, I am a mother to a 21 year old who has a son of her own and lives independently. I also have two teenage daughters and a 9 year old son who has recently been diagnosed as having ASD. My husband and I have battled with our sons challenging  and violent behaviour since he was 18 months old. Although medication has helped calm our son our teenage daughters often make challenging situations worse and accuse my husband and I of favouring our son or letting him get away with things. We have been advised to pick our battles and experience of consequences having no effect has left us confused at how we can implement effective discipline and bring harmony into the home. Any ideas?

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  • hey there scrubber Laughing

    i have no idea what you go through as my partner and i dont have kids

    have you talked to your daughters? helped them understand what autism is,

    id try to exlain that its not about 'favouring' , its about you doing what you can to make , his, their, and everyone elses, lives better,

    and that might SEEM like favouring but its not,

    its about making everyone comfortable, and yes that means a lot of the time the person with autism comes first, because their issues cause them more stress, but that does NOT mean everyone else is less important or hes being 'favoured'

    you can find other ways to make them happy, but he only has a few and sometimes that means they will have to put up with things they dont like for that to happen

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  • hey there scrubber Laughing

    i have no idea what you go through as my partner and i dont have kids

    have you talked to your daughters? helped them understand what autism is,

    id try to exlain that its not about 'favouring' , its about you doing what you can to make , his, their, and everyone elses, lives better,

    and that might SEEM like favouring but its not,

    its about making everyone comfortable, and yes that means a lot of the time the person with autism comes first, because their issues cause them more stress, but that does NOT mean everyone else is less important or hes being 'favoured'

    you can find other ways to make them happy, but he only has a few and sometimes that means they will have to put up with things they dont like for that to happen

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