Published on 12, July, 2020
So where do I begin. My little boy is 2 years and 8 months old and has very little speech.
We attended a initial speech therapy assessment on Tuesday when we were told my LO has several autistic signs. He didn't make eye contact with the specialist. Flapping hands when excited. No speech and not answering to his name when playing.
The news hit me like a rock I guess I always had my concerns ut never wanted to be confirmed. Spent most of the day in a daize ot knowing what to think or do next.
Got. Little Informatiin on what happens next other than a 12 month wait for an paediatric appointment.
Can anyone help advise. Feel lost.
HI
Im sorry you have this news.
But you know at least you have it now and you can learn about his needs and your rights in education and get a plan in place.
I always though my daughter was and no one would listen and here I am with her almost at secondary school and just about to assesst
There are some great books out there and look up Dr Tony Attwood https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=dr+tony+attwood+could+it+be+autism
Also by having this diagnosed at such an early age maybe gives you more time to speak to others ahead of you and do the best for the little chappie.
HIgh functioning autism doesn't have to be a weight round your neck. It could be you actually have a very bright little boy who, if he gets the right support and education will go on to achieve and do well.
Look after yourself psychologically and this will make you stronger. make a plan of your days and make them autistic friendly. Order the shopping if it creates havoc and maybe a peaceful walk in nature might take its place. take advantage of any offers of help and advice from intelligent elderly folk who have been there and done it.
Autistic children pick up on negativity and limit his contact with anyone who doesn't want the best for him or refuses to treat you or him with the same respect as if he wasn't on the spectrum .
Theres a really good blog and website called Someones mum that you should look at as Danielle has an autistic son.
One of the things I have realised doesn't work is talking and talking at my daughter. It just becomes white noise.
Is he affectionate and if your able to to be close really build on kindness and teaching him to respect himself and you.
get communication across with limited words stating the same meaning and maybe draw some cards for emotions so as he gets older he can learn how to communicate. i.e: sad face, happy face, tired person in a bed.
The one thing that winds my daughter up is a chaotic atmosphere, so try and keep the home very calm.
Also allow him a place in the living room or somewhere that he can go that's peaceful, warm and maybe has a cuddly toy and blanket that he retreat to.
Hope that helps.
Take care of yourself
Its so personal to him and it will be like trying to find your way through the woods.There is help but you have to look for it.