Published on 12, July, 2020
I have 9 year old son who has not been dignosed with anything yet these are a few of the signs he has
1.Negative when thinking
2. Every emotial at school and at home
3. Has what i call meltdowns with his emotions
4. Cant express how hes feeling get upset and frustrated
5. Does not relate to children his age
6. Need to be told put clothes on ect
7. Needs to be told every day what hes doing what hea having for dinner ect
8. He is also dyslexic
9.needs help tieing shoes
10. Cant go places in a drop of a hat gets really upset
If anyone thinks he has some signs let me know thanks Aarons mum x
Your son appears to be having difficulty in coping in his school and home. That would indicate he does has a problem and should see a specialist Doctor. Ask your GP if he will refer him to a pediatriatic specialist who may refer him even further to a visiting specialist.
if it can be shown he has a Problem (as He seems to have ) The school will have to accommodate.him.
Any way you should start praising him, as I expect you do . Always be positive, .Tell him lots of others are wanting him to feel happy. .
My adult son has never been able to tie his shoe laces. My wife's solution was to buy him shoes with a special lace toggle this only requires him to pull the toggle and a simple motion or press a button to release it, so to remove them..Just had a look - They are XA3D Ultra Adventure Trail maker SALOMON (website) Probably from Millets, a bit expensive, It is best to see in a shop if you can. There must be others , if that is a help..
As a point of Interest for others I Referred to this during his PIP Scoring as he needed special foot wear.
I would say he has some autistic behaviors, it would seem he needs to know and predict with certainty when something is going to happen in his life. This is probably why an unexplained event will trigger a melt down, if he tries to pin you down to an event time, always give your self some slack as going past an expected event time can be traumatic.