New here and my new husband and I have my 22 year old Aspergers' son living with us.

Hi everyone,

This is my first post after joining the NAS and attending 2 support meetings as my new husband and I are struggling and arguing over how to work with my son and I am looking for help and support from fellow parents and asperger adults for advice and guidance.

I have found there is too much information available online and I struggle to see the 'wood for the trees'.

My husband feels I am being manipulated and my son can do far more on his own, whereas I like to take little steps at a time and feel like 'piggy' in the middle.

Any pointers on the way forward would be greatly appreciated.

Helen C