Husband diagnosed

Hey, my name is Cara. I am looking for help, support and encouragement. My husband was diagnosed 2 weeks ago with Autism. I always knew he had something, but did not realize it was this. We have been married 7 years now and have had our share of ups and downs. He has gotten violent at times, but knowing this, I understand better. I don't excuse the behavior, but I better understand it. I, myself have a learning disability. I graduated from college with a teaching degree and a special education endorsement. I was trained to spot the signs, but when it was right under my nose at home I missed it for years. My goal, is to get him all the help and support I can and to be a better wife to him. I signed up for this, not knowing exactly how intense his problems were, but I plan to stand and support my husband. I just need help too.