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Shaking hands with the unemployed...

StephenHarris

Or whatever euphemism you choose to use for self-pleasure. None of my medical people seemed to be familllliar with that term.

I have started engaging in this on medical advice; I have no lovely lady in my life at the moment for one thing. I am on venlafaxine, which was also causing discharge to come out when I was doing a number 2.

Unfortunately, it is taking up to 20 minutes - or more - to produce the cream and then there is the issue of dealing with the end product. I live at home with my mother for one thing... so I can't exactly put a stiff sock out.

Any advice for a) making the process go a bit quicker and b) containing, then disposing of the evidence?

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  • Are you saying you worry that a woman would be put off that you took too long? Because if so, I don't think that's a problem. It could be a problem if it was over with too quickly.

    If you aren't with anyone now can you call it a problem? If the medication makes you feel better & relaxed, eventually that could lead to you meeting someone. If you had chemistry with them, sex might not feel like such a chore. Although it's essential to be safe when you're with someone, a bit of spontaneity makes it less mechanical.

    Even many men/women already in happy relationships still masturbate by themselves as well. Because they enjoy it.

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  • Are you saying you worry that a woman would be put off that you took too long? Because if so, I don't think that's a problem. It could be a problem if it was over with too quickly.

    If you aren't with anyone now can you call it a problem? If the medication makes you feel better & relaxed, eventually that could lead to you meeting someone. If you had chemistry with them, sex might not feel like such a chore. Although it's essential to be safe when you're with someone, a bit of spontaneity makes it less mechanical.

    Even many men/women already in happy relationships still masturbate by themselves as well. Because they enjoy it.

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