Helping your child deal with a diagnosis

So, my almost 13 yr old son was diagnosed yesterday and it's still sinking in.  I feel somehow a sense of relief.  I have know he was ads since he was about 5 But struggled to get a diagnosis.  He was diagnosed as adhd inattentive back then.  His recent struggles with anxiety led me back to camhs and now finally a diagnosis.   But my son does not want to hear the outcome.  Can anyone advise on how they have approached this with an older child?   Currently I am reassuring him that I am here when he wants to talk...which of course probably means little to him as he rarely 'wants' to talk

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  • Thanks Clovis,   Right now I don't even know what help he may need and indeed it's from a want of not being 'different' that he doesnt want to know about the outcome of the assessment.  I think it will be some time before he may be ready to meet peers and I don't know what help might be available yet or what his specific needs are.   He does cope well in life so hopefully we may manage without too much intervention!   Time will tell...

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  • Thanks Clovis,   Right now I don't even know what help he may need and indeed it's from a want of not being 'different' that he doesnt want to know about the outcome of the assessment.  I think it will be some time before he may be ready to meet peers and I don't know what help might be available yet or what his specific needs are.   He does cope well in life so hopefully we may manage without too much intervention!   Time will tell...

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