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A Strange Mental connection.

Dantheman37

For my entire 17 year life I have been a supporter of Chelsea Football Club. Recently however, I made a mental connection between them and my former crush- who turned out to be a really horrible person who betrayed numerous amounts of people including myself. 

This has resulted in me losing the passion and enthusiasm for supporting the team. I don't know why its happened, or why I made the mental connection between the 2 in the first place. Does anyone else reading this know what I'm going through? Has anyone else evr made a mental conncetion between something you love something you hate, causing you to lose the thing you loved? Or has someone successfully managed to solve this problem? 

If so, could you give me an in depth explanation on how you did it? If not, could anyone give me an idea on how I could solve it? I have been unable to find help anywhere else. 

Feedback would be apprectiated. Thank you very much.

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  • Umm... I wasnt actually in a relationship with her at any point... Hope you gathered that. 

    What happened is she was acting in a super nice way throughout one year to give me a false sense of security. Then over time she started slowly doing things to annoy me that would get progressively worse over time. This caused me to do some stupid things which got me into trouble, and gave everyone else in mine and her family the view that I was the one in the wromg when really it was her hurting me. She was manipulating me into doing really bad things, then taking advantage of that to hurt me even further. Also, the fact that she is very beautiful in appearance combined with her actions during her "nice" year and everything she did afterwards all at once makes it 2 or 3 times as difficult to move on from as a normal rejection would. 

    I havent told my family this in full. I tried to before but they didn't believe me. I hope you do. 

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  • Umm... I wasnt actually in a relationship with her at any point... Hope you gathered that. 

    What happened is she was acting in a super nice way throughout one year to give me a false sense of security. Then over time she started slowly doing things to annoy me that would get progressively worse over time. This caused me to do some stupid things which got me into trouble, and gave everyone else in mine and her family the view that I was the one in the wromg when really it was her hurting me. She was manipulating me into doing really bad things, then taking advantage of that to hurt me even further. Also, the fact that she is very beautiful in appearance combined with her actions during her "nice" year and everything she did afterwards all at once makes it 2 or 3 times as difficult to move on from as a normal rejection would. 

    I havent told my family this in full. I tried to before but they didn't believe me. I hope you do. 

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