My son is getting assesesed for being on the spectrum, but shows no signs in school its like he waits until he gets home and just erupts, we have a meeting every 6/8 weeks, but the school say same thing, that he is fine and a happy lovely boy, just come from another meeting where again they said the above, although the behaviour specialist who observed him, did pick up on few things, pulling faces, fidgeting, sensory issues, rocking but did say he was a vary happy little boy.
I just feel so confused and helpless or maybe its my fault why he is like what he is, its like nobody believes me when i tell them because he doesnt have the meltdowns or behaviours that he does when he gets home, is this normal for children on the spectrum to be like this, or isit me or should i be looking down at being something else? CAMHS have said it looks like he is on the spectrum and sent a questionnaire to school, but camhs also stated that if school say he is fine and nothing is wrong then they cant do anything until school say they see a problem. I just feel so helpless, all i want is to be shown how to deal with him and what to do and i dont feel like i am going to get any of that, going down the line of him being fine in school, but then like he is at home. any advice would be so much appricated, because at the moment i realy feel like im going out of my mind and it must be me because he isnt doing any traits, meltdowns etc infront of teachers.
