Daughter Refusing Diagnosis

I hope somebody may have some advice about this. I suspect that my daughter 15 years old may have aspergers. We have seen a specialist (9 month wait) who has said that there is a strong possibility of aspergers but needed more investigation for full diagnosis however as there were some mental health problems we would have to see Camhs (another 6 month wait). Now we seem to have hit a road block to get the full diagnosis my daughter has to agree. Well, my daughter doesn't agree to anything. I dragged her to first appointment, second appointment she agreed to go if a bought her a new online TV series  but said to Camhs that she didn't want to be there.  She refuses to entertain the idea that she may have aspergers calling it insulting.  I really don't understand how a child has the final say. After all we are expected to force them to go to school why is this different, how come I am no longer the responsible adult? On the other side am I doing the right thing if she doesn't want it, everything I have read said it can help and I am very worried about her.

Does anybody have any experience of advice about this?

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    This might be a good point, whilst your daughter is not engaging, to do a check to see if there are other family members (particularly parents) who are also on the spectrum. Autism is frequently inherited from a parent who has no idea that they are on the spectrum too. There is a free and reliable test at aspergerstest.net/.../ this measures autistic traits but does not measure someone's consequential needs.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    This might be a good point, whilst your daughter is not engaging, to do a check to see if there are other family members (particularly parents) who are also on the spectrum. Autism is frequently inherited from a parent who has no idea that they are on the spectrum too. There is a free and reliable test at aspergerstest.net/.../ this measures autistic traits but does not measure someone's consequential needs.

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