Daughter Refusing Diagnosis

I hope somebody may have some advice about this. I suspect that my daughter 15 years old may have aspergers. We have seen a specialist (9 month wait) who has said that there is a strong possibility of aspergers but needed more investigation for full diagnosis however as there were some mental health problems we would have to see Camhs (another 6 month wait). Now we seem to have hit a road block to get the full diagnosis my daughter has to agree. Well, my daughter doesn't agree to anything. I dragged her to first appointment, second appointment she agreed to go if a bought her a new online TV series  but said to Camhs that she didn't want to be there.  She refuses to entertain the idea that she may have aspergers calling it insulting.  I really don't understand how a child has the final say. After all we are expected to force them to go to school why is this different, how come I am no longer the responsible adult? On the other side am I doing the right thing if she doesn't want it, everything I have read said it can help and I am very worried about her.

Does anybody have any experience of advice about this?

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  • There has been some serious distrubtion at school but having the partial diagnosis has helped the school be more accomodating to my daughter rather than blaming her for everything and maybe thats all we need at this stage. It breaks my heart to see her hurt but I see now that a diagnosis is not always seen as a positive thing so she needs to be the one to make the descision. Many thanks for all your help with this.

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  • There has been some serious distrubtion at school but having the partial diagnosis has helped the school be more accomodating to my daughter rather than blaming her for everything and maybe thats all we need at this stage. It breaks my heart to see her hurt but I see now that a diagnosis is not always seen as a positive thing so she needs to be the one to make the descision. Many thanks for all your help with this.

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